What Do Two Lesbians Do In Bed Together?
So What Do Two Lesbians Do In Bed Together?
Well they have sex dummy!
Apparently not, it seems rather than fucking in bed lesbians sleep!
Ok so us lesbians like kissing in bed, making out in bed and just basically having sex in bed right?
I don’t know about you, but I get sick and tired of guys or straight girls asking me what two lesbians do in bed together, we are not aliens you know!
I always answer with the same, comment…
When two lesbians are in bed together, they SLEEP!
Now we all know that what people really mean when they ask what lesbians do in bed together, is they mean how do we erm make love!
How rude!
You just don’t ask what people what they do in bed!
I mean, I would never ask any of my straight friends what they do in bed right?
So why do people think is it ok to ask a lesbian what she does when she is in bed with her gorgeous lesbian girlfriend???
I know most people are just curious as to what lesbians get up to underneath the covers on the bed, but is lesbian sex really that interesting?
Guys just want a piece of the lesbian pie!
Ok we know why guys think lesbians fucking are hot, cos they wish they could get in on the action right?
But I actually get really embarrassed when straight women ask me.
My boss asks how I fuck my girlfriend!
Yesterday in work, one of my bosses, was asking me what I do in bed with a lesbian.
I almost fainted!
I think by the way my face turned crimson red, she knew she had maybe put me on the spot!
She innocently asked…
“what do lesbians do when they are in bed together, I mean, obviously neither of you have a dick, so what do you do?”
Anne is a cock lover, there is no way she would ever trying sleeping with a gay girl, she would miss the “penetration” too much.
Hold on a sec…
Who said lesbians cant have penetration???
Us lesbians have fingers right?
Ten last time I checked!
Although I would not suggest using the whole ten fingers right away!
So does using your fingers to pleasure your lesbian girlfriend count as penetration?
I think it does, but opinion varies.
I was on a Lesbian Community Website the other day, and the discussion was penetration.
Now as always, there are men on lesbians sites, yes for whatever reason, they always come to our sites, some come openly as men, others hide and mask behind a lesbian profile!
But to be honest you can always spot a man in a lesbian website a mile away!
Anyway, this lesbian (a man) started a discussion about penetration, and he/she said that penetration by fingers does not constitute having sex.
The reason behind this was that if a man and a woman were getting down and dirty, and then man used his fingers inside her, but that was all, not other sexual contact, then they had not had sex together.
The person further used a virgin as an example, they said that if a virgin did this, she would still think her virginity was intact and that she had not had sex yet.
When I was reading this, I did think ok I can see the reasoning behind this and perhaps I agreed a little that they had not technically had sex, it was more a sexual act than full on sex.
So now I was confused about lesbian sex!
If I was agreeing that finger penetration was not actually having sex, then technically I was saying that when lesbians are in bed together they don’t have sex.
Of course I know us lesbians do a lot more than just that in bed, but I am just discussing this part of lesbian bedroom activity right now.
Cue the angry lesbians…
There then followed an onslaught of angry lesbians all screaming blue murder that it was sex!
If you look on wikipedia, the definition for sexual intercourse is as follows:
Sexual intercourse, also known as copulation or coitus, commonly refers to the act in which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract.[1][2] The two entities may be of opposite sexes or not, or they may be hermaphroditic, as is the case with snails. In recent years, penetration of non-sexual organs (oral intercourse, anal intercourse) or by non-sexual organs (fingering, fisting) are also sometimes included in this definition.[2] Traditionally, intercourse has been viewed as the natural endpoint of all sexual contact between a man and a woman.[2]
Non-penetrative sexual contacts and mutual masturbation (oral sex may or may not be penetrative) have been referred to as “outercourse”.[3][4][5][6] The word sex, in the context of sexual intimacy, is often, if not universally, understood to include any mutual genital stimulation, i.e. both intercourse and outercourse.[7]
Sexual intercourse for most animals other than humans occurs at the point of estrus (the most fertile period of time in the female’s reproductive cycle),[8][9]successful impregnation. However, bonobos,[10]dolphins,[11] and chimpanzees are known to engage in sexual intercourse even when the female is not in estrus, and to engage in sex acts with same-sex partners.[12] In most instances, humans have sex primarily for pleasure.[13] This behavior in the above mentioned animals is also presumed to be for pleasure,[14] which increases the chances of which in turn strengthens social bonds.
Attention fellow lesbians, Sally needs your help!
So I need your help, I want you to tell me, using the comments box below, do you think that if someone penetrates someone with their fingers that they have had sex?
Just answer:
yes, it’s sex
or
No, it’s not sex.
And feel free to justify your reasons for your answer.
I am very curious as to know your personal opinion on this subject.
When two lesbians are in bed together, are they having full on sex or just committing sexual acts, let me know your thoughts.
Stay gay, Sally x
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Well I read your blog. to answer you question, “Does fingering count as full sex?”, I would have to say yes, it does count. My first reason is because let’s say there are two lesbians about to go to bed, right? Let’s say one of them is a virgin, if the other lesbian were to use her fingers to penetrate, I am 100% sure that would take her virginity away. I mean it would really tear it. Common sense, it’s sexual contact, so yes it counts. Another thing it’s about your boss. she did say “Obviously you don’t have dicks right?” Does that chick not know her own anatomy?!? The clit is the same thing. And actually, a clit is as big as dick. the tip of it is visible and hyper sensitive, but the rest of it lies within the pelvis, but with the help of a pump, you discover the actual size and believe me I KNOW! Seen it before. A clit has actually been able to take a girl’s virginity. So….full penetration, lesbian full sex, whatever the hell it is, does exist!! What do you think about that? Dori
ps: Tried to help as much as I could. LOL
yes, it’s sex. Personally, I have been sexually active for 22 years and have never had any sexual contact with a man. So, would I say that I have never had sex? That I have only “committed sexual acts” in my life? Well, no, that would be ridiculous. (And I think my partners would agree that we “had sex”.) And a woman definitely does not need to have a dick inside her to be fucked. If a woman has an orgasm from a tongue or finger(s) inside, that would be sex. Hell, a woman can have an orgasm with nothing being inside her body. And of course, there is always sex, straight or gay, that may not result in an orgasm, and the participants still would say they “had sex”. So yeah, lesbians do have “full on sex”. (I think the reason straight people are so preoccupied with this subject is just because they are jealous. They know we are/have the superior sex, so to speak.)
Hey Dori, thanks for the comment, I am kinda scared of a clit now reminds me of a film title “what lies beneath!”
Hi Pam, I agree we have sex, of course I do, and I do agree with you that straight people are just jealous too! x
Would we say that two lesbian having “above the waist sex” are not having sex? men have 10 fingers too but, nobody here finds that sexy! Finaly, there are some lesbian feminists who are of the opinion that there is nothing inside that adds to sexual stimulation. In the end I think it is what is going on in your head that counts.
Hi Roger, thanks for your comment, and yes I agree no one here is interested in your fingers ha ha, just kidding x Yes, what goes on in your head and your heart is what counts x
Yeah it definitely counts as sex, I mean like Pam said, a woman doesn’t really always need something inside to reach orgasm. Hey Sally, why are you scared of clits, based on what my GF said?
Hi Raven, yes the description of it being giant inside did scare me a little, out of sight out of mind I think is best for a wimp like me! x
I think i would b better if u showed me, then i will b able to answer yr question
x
Hey Dani, well the kind, loving, giving, sharing kinda person that I am, I guess I will just have to come show you then! xx